I’ve had quite a long break from blogging, which has probably gone unnoticed, but in that period of time, I’ve learnt a lot. I’ve learnt things about myself and just life in general and I thought I’d share 10 of these things with you today. There are a lot more things so if you want me to do this again, let me know.
- Karma is a bitch – you’ve probably heard this one a million times because everyone says it, but there’s a reason for that, it’s so true. When you do something you shouldn’t have done, or you cross someone, it will come back around and it will be twice as bad. So please, take it from me, don’t be a snake and be a bitch. You really do reap what you sew.
- I’m too comfortable – I’m not pushed outside of my comfort zone enough. When I am, I can be quite insecure and vulnerable, contrary to my usual confident self. Sometimes you need to be pushed out of your comfort zone as it’s not good to get too comfortable. And obviously it’s normal to feel a bit vulnerable when you aren’t comfortable, but it’s best to put yourself out there a little bit more often.
- You aren’t competing with anyone else – the only person you have to be better than is the person that you were yesterday. It means absolutely nothing to be better than your friend, someone who is on a different path than you. We’re all on totally different paths, on different journeys, and where you are on your path in comparison to someone on another path its totally irrelevant. The only thing that matters is bettering yourself. And, there is room in this world for all of us to succeed.
- Being yourself is worth the judgement and inconclusions – it’s better to be who you are and be true to yourself than pretend to someone that your not. I’m not saying it’s easy to be yourself all the time, it’s deffiently not the easier option, but people are going to judge and have there opinions not matter what. Hearing people say awful things about you and talk about you behind your back isn’t nice at all but those people don’t matter. The people who do matter are the ones that accept you for who you are.
- If you want to succeed, you need to fight – if you really want something, you’re going to have to put in work for it. You can’t fail at something and just give up, you can’t let little things knock your confidence, you can’t expect or accept failure; you have to push yourself, hard. One hurdle can’t stop you from achieving what you want in life. There are lots of hurdles in the way and you just have to get over them.
- You are better than you think you are – having confidence in yourself is the key. Spending time worrying with your mind fixated on the worst possible outcome is time wasted. I personally put myself down a lot and tell myself I’m not as good as I really am. You and I are capable or doing whatever we put our minds to and you just need to have faith that you are. You’ll be surprised.
- Dwelling on bad situations gets nobody anywhere – bad things happen, that’s life. They will have negative effects, that’s inevitable. But really, you need to put it into perspective and think about how much worse it could be and think about how many people are in a worse situation than you, because I can guarantee, there is always someone. You should keep dwelling on the situation because you’ll get caught up in it and see only the bad, when in fact there is always a positive in every situation. Sometimes you just have to look a bit harder for it.
- You’re never going to understand some people and they’re never going to understand you – there are people that you’ll meet in live that you really don’t get along with and that you really don’t see eye to eye with. It’s okay to have different views than some people, no one is asking you to be best friends with everyone. Avoid dealing with people you don’t get along with if you can, but if you can’t you just have to be civil and mature.
- Just because other people like someone, doesn’t mean you have to – I personally tend to have very good intuitions about people and 99% of the time, I’m right. It’s just something that I’m naturally good at and other people don’t seem to be. Even if your best friends are friends with someone, doesn’t mean you have to be. You don’t even have to be that nice to them if they aren’t nice to you either. I’ve been called a hoe by a friend of a friends… I can’t tell you how many times a friend has come to me telling me what so and so has done to them, and I knew all along that they would.
- Life is too short to take it too seriously – you don’t know how much time you have left but there is deffiently no time to waste not enjoying your. Spend as much time as you possibly can with the people you love and as little time as you possibly can with the people you really don’t. You don’t have time to sit with your mouth shut, pretending to be someone that you’re not. Live day by day and don’t take things too seriously. You’re happiness should be your number one priority.